Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Updated Pics

Maya and Jayden still enjoy bubble time!
Bunnie is starting to grow on Maya. She realized she can be friends with Bunnie and still love Bear.

Very grainy, but I love his face here.
Here's Maya on a bright sunny morning!
Kisses for my baby.
Jayden and Maya love to play with blankets. Peek-a-boo is a favorite around the house.
They also like to play at being superheroes, but they don't even know it yet. They put on their blankets and run around the house after one another.
Maya usually tells me she's cold when she wants me to secure her blanket around her neck.
Maya is clearly overjoyed by the bubbles.
More blanket adventures...
Super Maya and her trusty giraffe!
Jayden knows he's much too big for this toy.
Maya talking with Esteban before bedtime.
I think she thinks he's in the phone.
Beautiful day for Pointe Orlando
Maya at the fountain and Jayden at the bench...
Jayden continues to practice tracing horizontal, vertical and diagonal lines.
He's pretty good at the diagonal ones...
It's those horizontal ones that get him every time.
Maya keeps me company at the doctor's office. She's so well behaved when she's alone. She keeps herself very entertained.
Jayden is pissed cause he can't get his lego tower to stand. He doesn't understand that he's missing legos underneath. He keeps trying to fill in the gaps from the bottom instead of working from the bottom up. LOL
More horizontal lines... Ugh... He really doesn't like them. Click on the picture to see his work. Can you tell?
Believe me, it's not cold in Florida, but Maya wanted her jacket and hat. So cute!

Monday, March 16, 2009

Adventures in Home-Schooling!

I have Jayden on a wait list for the VPK program in Florida. It’s voluntary pre-k and free! I’m very excited because I know Jayden is ready for school and loves to interact with the other kids when he goes to Sunday school. The program would last for a year, and he would attend every day for three hours a day. As I wait for April 20th, voucher day, I started to wonder if Jayden was ready for school. I was told that 90% of the kids have come from a daycare or pre-school environment so basically we have our work cut out for us.

I’ve started to work with Jayden at home to try to get him ready. We work together 2 to 3 times a week for about an hour or so. We have been practicing with tracing horizontal, vertical and diagonal lines. Afterwards, we have computer time where we work on reciting the alphabet, letter recognition, and sounds. I just started to introduce capital and lowercase letters, and number recognition. At our last lesson, we worked with scissors and practiced cutting on the line. Jayden LOVED that!

Jayden started out slow. Our first lesson lasted about 10 minutes and then he lost interest. But as time goes on, he gets better with controlling the pencil and is more patient with writing. While we practice, Maya sits and colors. And I encourage Jayden by telling him that when he’s done, we can work on the computer, his favorite part. Now, he’s really getting into it and he really looks forward to our lessons. He pulls up the chair next to mine and Maya sits on my lap, often times reciting the letters and sounds. I’m not really using a curriculum, but if you have any suggestions on other activities, please send them on. I would appreciate it!


Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Men! Who Can Reason with Them?

My car has been making very odd noises for quite some time. Last week, the noises started to get scary so I reminded Esteban about it and his answer was for me to drive his car to work. That doesn't really solve my problem so I wait a couple of days and ask him again what to do about my car. He wants us to try going to one of those mechanics who works out of his home and I insist on a shop. He thinks we'll save some money by doing it his way etc, but I think we'll waste a lot of time because both of us will have to go to drop off the car and there's the issue of going to buy the parts and I want to be able to pay with a CC and get a receipt etc. Home mechanics usually only take cash, there's no receipt, no warranty... Well, I lost the battle so on Monday, we take the car to the mechanic, who was referred to us by his co-workers...

I program the GPS and realize we are a little over ONE HOUR away. Problem number one! But I don't say anything and start the long ride. When we get there, the mechanic takes a look and decides to take the car for a test drive. I take the kids for a walk to entertain them while the mechanic assesses the situation. As I'm almost around the block on my walk, my husband pulls up in my car with an odd look on his face and says he's had an accident. The car looks intact so I smile confused and try to figure out what he's talking about. What he said next, I did not hear. But he pointed to my car and there I saw it. My windshield was completely shattered. Unfortunately they did not secure the hood before taking it for the test run and it actually popped up while driving and cracked the entire windshield.

As I'm typing this, I'm realizing how horrible this could have been. Thank God, we were out in the boonies somewhere between Haines City and Dundee, a good hour away from home and they were on a back road somewhere with minimal traffic. The air bags did not deploy and there was very little damage to the frame of my car. And thank God, only a few shards of glass fell into the vehicle. No one was hurt. At the time though, I was not counting my blessings. Ok, I admit. I was fuming! Neither man knew what to say and I was so upset, but I was conscience that we were not alone so I bit my lip. They drove back to the house and when I walked up, they had assessed the situation. The brakes and struts were bad and my poor new wheels had no tread on the inside. This could have been a one day fix, but I called the insurance company and they weren't able to send anyone out for the glass until the next day. So Esteban and the mechanic rush off to buy parts and I take the kids for lunch. There's a Walmart nearby so after a leisurely lunch, I pass the time there.

Finally Esteban arrives. It was so late. On the way home, he kept apologizing, but what was done was done and there was nothing we could do. It wasn't his fault, but I kept thinking if we'd only gone to a regular shop, this wouldn't be happening. God's grace was with me though and I did not say anything to make him feel worse about the situation. Thank you God. We had pleasant conversation most of the way home, especially after the kids had finally fallen asleep.

Today, we head back to the mechanics. The glass should have been repaired between 10 - 1pm. But when we get there at 12:30pm, there's no sign of them. I called and was told 45 - 60 minutes max. But an hour and 15 minutes goes by and nothing. Great another wasted day! I had already listened to a good hour of my audio book, gone through my mail for the past week, re-organized and purged my coupons, cut out new coupons, gone through my email... Now all I had left was cranky Maya and my loose cannon, Jayden. I decide (or Esteban decides for me) that I need to get out of there. I took the kids for lunch. The closest McDonald's was 20 minutes away, according to the GPS! But off I went and when I got back, my windshield had been replaced and we were good to go.

Unfortunately, we ran out of time and did not get to finish the second part of the repair job, the tire replacement and wheel alignment. So now, I've called out for tomorrow to stay home with the kids so that Esteban can take the car to get the new tires and alignment. Lucky me gets to stay home with the kids. Believe me, after two days of crying and cranky toddlers, I was so ready to get away from them and go to work. (Is that bad?) But instead, I'll be home probably doing laundry, listening to Maya shout noooooooo, miiiiiine, or shhhhhhare and asking Jayden what number comes after 2, for the hundredth time!

Daddy Pig

Lately, there are a quite a few cartoons out pig families. Jayden loves "Toot and Puddle" and "Peppa Pig". Peppa is a pig and she lives with Mummy Pig and Daddy Pig and her brother George. Daddy Pig snorts an aweful lot and I think that's why Jayden has grown so fond of this cartoon. Now Jayden has started to snort too. One day, I was talking to Jayden and I made a reference to Esteban as being Daddy Pig and Jayden's been calling him that ever since. Esteban is so mad. He truly despises it. He says, "It's ok for him to call me that at home, but in public? It sounds awful." I nod in agreement, but inside I'm dying of laughter. I hear Jayden calling Daddy Pig and Esteban says "No me llames eso!" And Jayden snorts in return and runs off. I can't stop laughing as I type this.
Now Jayden has started to call me Mommy Pig which I don't mind a bit and earlier I heard him refer to Maya as Maya Pig. I think it's hysterical. Especially when he adds in a snort or two!

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Build-a-Bear

Jayden and Maya received Build-a-Bear gift cards, a couple of Christmas' ago and we finally went to see what it was all about. We went with friend's from our mom's group, Sharon, Gabby, and Anthony.

Choosing a bear was a very complex thing. Jayden liked lots of animals, but mostly he wanted to run all over the store. Maya was easy. I picked out a soft bunny and she was set. Finally, Jayden decided he wanted the alligator because he was green, the same like my cup Mommy! Here's Jayden after selecting his gator's heart. He got to help stuff his gator.

Then he went over to the grooming station. He got to brush his gator, but what he really liked was pushing the pedal and feeling the air come out of the vents.
Gabby and Jayden worked together.

After that, you get to choose which accessories you want for your new friend. This can be a scary for the parent, but luckily, Jayden didn't seem to be interested. He decided he wanted shoes. I suggested sandals and he agreed. Then he decided, his gator should have undies too. Of course! Here's Jayden showing Green Gator some love!
Maya had no hand in dressing her bunny. Really, she's too small for this. So I chose some pigtails and a matching top. Maya seemed content with the finished product.
Maya took her new bunny back to the grooming station. She was tickled by the "tub" area.
Jayden figured what the heck! I might as well go and groom my gator again too!
Maya was very happy at this point! She's a little blurry, but still cute.
After Build-a-Bear, we had lunch in the food court and went for a walk, but we didn't get far because the kids were captivated by the water fountain. Everytime the jets went off, the kids screamed with joy.
Jayden prepared to make a wish and throw his penny in. This was his first time. He wished for a yo-yo and he was bummed out that it didn't just appear out of nowhere.
Anthony was especially delighted with the fountain. He was so funny and people were stopping to look and smile at him.
Too cute!
What can be better than two smiling kids?
One last look at the water fountain...

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Miami Highlights and Pictures

  • Valentine’s Night, we put the kids to bed and then went out for drinks and desserts. I haven’t done in a really long time?
  • I played Wii for the first time! It was awesome! I liked bowling. I had a rough time with baseball and golf. I was remote challenged, I think…
  • Jayden fell into the pool and gave me a scare. Never a dull moment. Must be something about that pool. It’s the second time he’s fallen in on two separate occasions.
  • We took the kids to Dave & Busters. First time! Jayden loved the lights and machines. Then he got to pick out a toy after redeeming his tickets. He was thrilled!
  • We took a drive to the airport and parked. Sounds silly, but we’ve never done that and Jayden is so into the planes that it was just awesome to watch. To make it even better, there was an old track running along side the airport, where we were parked so the kids ran up and down the tracks for a good while.
  • Judy and I stayed up almost every night till really late, mostly talking crap. Gotta love that! We looked at old pictures, reminisced, and caught up on old stories and new ones too…

Here's my cutie!

Jayden's smiley face...
Serious Maya
Jayden's soccer face...
I'm sure she was saying something like "Look!"
Ivanna and Maya dressed as twins...
Becky and Ivanna
Stand by Me
Gabby, Becky and Jayden
Ivanna and Jayden
Here's the best shot I could do of myself with the girls.
Judy's beautiful family...
Corndogs for lunch...
Yummy!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Valentine's Day

Not wanting to be disappointed by Esteban again on Valentine’s Day, I made my own plans. He originally told me he was working so I decided to head to Miami to visit my best childhood friend, Jayden's Godmother. She's a school teacher and off on Monday too for President's Day. Perfect. A girl’s weekend (+kids)... After all Valentine's Day is the day of love and friendship. Her husband would be busy all weekend with his store's inventory so it would be perfect, right? Not so much. Esteban tells me at the last minute that he took the day off, after he had already given me his blessing for the trip 4 days ago. In the end, I decided NOT to change my plans and I felt awful about it.

If he really wanted to surprise me for Valentine's Day, why would he tell me to go ahead and go to Miami? And when I asked him what he planned for Saturday, it was easy to see that the answer was nothing. He said we could go to breakfast, but in my opinion we can do that anytime... Maybe I'm a romantic, but I feel like it should be a special day, time for something different, creative, out of the box. I don’t expect flowers, chocolate, dinner and a movie. Just not the same old, same old... So I did not change my plans and I felt justified, even though some people thought I was nuts.

Here's what I did. On Friday, I left work early so I could get to the store to pick up some things for a special breakfast without him knowing it. When he left for work, I unpacked my car and began work. I got a crock pot for Christmas and he's been dying for me to break it in. So I made a breakfast casserole and put it in the fridge for this morning. Then I got the kids working on a Valentine’s Day finger painting project for Daddy. It came out too cute! And after the kids went to bed, I filled out his card and wrote him a love letter, which I haven't done since 2001! On Valentine’s Day, I woke up at 5am to put on the casserole and found he left me a rose and a card on the kitchen table. Awww! Back to bed. When he woke up, the coffee was ready and the house smelled scrumptious! I used to love waking up to the smell of food and I hoped he would too. We had a relaxing breakfast together and then I head out with the kids, no rush...

I was still sad to leave him and I knew he was crushed, but you just can’t take things for granted. I really felt that he needed to know that. In the end, it was a weekend of love notes and when I came back home, I felt loved and wanted. We had a great talk and you gotta love make-up sex. Now that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about!