I get such a kick out of saying that! Comai is short for Comadre, which means Godmother. Judy, my best friend since the 5th grade, is Jayden's godmother and we went to visit with her just before Esteban's flight arrived. Here are Jayden and Ivanna playing the Wii. These guys are so funny together. I am shocked at how young kids these things up. He was awesome on that thing.
Maya is the observer, but she didn't seem to mind too much.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Mi Comai!
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Sunday, July 19, 2009
Weekend at Beth's
Every year, we go to South Florida and visit with my girlfriend Beth. Sadly, we did not get a chance to go last year, but this year, we went and had a great time! Basically we spent the entire time in the pool. We did leave once for dinner and once to shop, but it was just too beautiful not to enjoy the pool. Suits me just fine! Here's Sinclaire and Jayden.
Maya discovers a water balloon.
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Monday, July 13, 2009
UPDATE: Reuniting a Family
July 13, 2009: Shannel arrives in Honduras, after a hard and long journey from Guatemala, where she lives with her husband and child. All three of Esteban’s children are together for the first time since last year.
July 9, 2009: I received an email saying the appointments have been scheduled for July 16, 2009 at 7:30 a.m. I am in awe of God’s power, for only He could make this happen in this way. Thank you, God, for answering our prayers. We put in calls to all our relatives asking them to stand with us in prayer, that God will show favor on our petition and grant the kid’s entrance into the United States. Shortly after, I received a second email asking us to bring all forms and documents with us to the scheduled appointment.
July 8, 2009: I drafted an email in response to the embassy. I gave them Esteban’s cell phone number as well as Jerry’s number, who is now the boy’s guardian in our absence. I also asked if we should drop off the DS-230 part I and II while Esteban is in the country. I wonder if I will need to be there as the petitioner?
July 7, 2009: I got an email from the embassy in Tegucigalpa saying they were ready to set an appointment for August 2009 and they wanted a local number to reach them at. I am shaking. Could this really be happening?
June 30, 2009: I called the National Visa Center to get some clarification on the visa packet. We finally have all the forms, passports, photos and documents we needed and filled out the forms, but when it comes to the NVC, I like to make certain. They proceeded to inform me that our case had been expedited. I just have to take a moment to say Thank You GOD! Because, I know, that I know, that I know, that all this is happening because of his goodness and grace. They said they sent the file to the US Embassy in Tegucigalpa, Honduras as of June 25th. I called the Embassy in Honduras and was given an email address to follow up with. I drafted and sent the email, the very same day. I’m hoping that Esteban can just hand deliver the forms to them while he visits.
June 5, 2009: We receive the visa application packet. The application doesn’t seem too bad. They are requesting a ton of original documents though. Many original documents, some of which we do not have. Luckily Esteban’s uncle was visiting in Honduras and he will bring us the children’s passports and updated passport photos. Because the kids are currently split up, he will only bring the boy’s updated passport photos though. Shanel’s photos and passport will have to wait until Esteban visits in July.
June 4, 2009: We send in our request to expedite the case, in Jesus name!
June 3, 2009: Things are getting worse in Honduras. Ricardito is in trouble and I am more desperate than ever to get him out of there and bring him home with us. I call immigration and they confirm they received the visa fee. The next step is the visa application packet. She tells me she will request for a packet to be emailed to me. I ask if there is any way to expedite the case. She said they will only expedite in the case of military or life and death. I explain our situation with the kids. She tells me to send in a request via email and submit a copy of the death certificate.
April 19, 2009: Esteban’s mother passes.
April 15, 2009: We sent in the visa fee. Transaction cost: $1207.99 Total spent: $2043.58
July 3, 2008: We received notification that they reviewed the documents submitted in support of an application for an immigrant visa but could not continue the case without the visa fee. We had two choices. We could send the payment, but Esteban would have to forgo his trip to Honduras. Or we could send Esteban to Honduras and wait to send the payment next year. At the time:
*Esteban had already skipped his trip to Honduras in 2007
*Esteban’s daughter bore a child out of wedlock and he was now a grandfather
*The children’s mother had decided to leave the country and the boys were practically on their own with their maternal grandmother
*Esteban’s mother’s health was declining
We decided that it was much more important for him to visit Honduras. The fee would have to wait.
June 23, 2008: I submitted the I864 and the I864A forms. I guesstimate that it took me a full two weeks of filling out applications, making phone calls, making copies, sorting through three years of financial data and organizing documents. Transaction cost: $12.45 Total spent: $835.59
April 25, 2008: We received notification that effective January 1, 2008, the immigrant visa fees increased from $380 to $400. Lucky us.
December 9, 2007: We received notification that they received the Agent of Choice letter but they could not continue until we submit the immigrant visa application fee of $380.
December 6, 2007: We sent in the Choice of Address and Agent form. This took a while because we were under the impression that they should be signed by the children personally. We later found out that because they were minor children, Esteban could sign the form on their behalf. Transaction cost: $4.80 Total spent: $823.14
September 3, 2007: We received notification to fill out the I864, Affidavit of Support. This was by far the most overwhelming application for me. I postponed the project many times and I considered giving up many times. This was my contract and promise to the children that I would be their sponsor. It was emotionally overwhelming. The directions alone were 11 pages long. The application was also 11 pages long.
August 22, 2007: We sent in the fees. Transaction cost: $214.65 Total spent: $818.34
August 6, 2007: We received the I864 processing fee bill for $70 each. We also received the Choice of Address and Agent form.
July 3, 2007: We received the I797, Approval Notice. We were thrilled.
June 16, 2007: We sent in the copies and translations. Transaction cost: $23.88 Total spent: $603.69
May 7, 2007: We received the I797E, requesting evidence. They wanted copies of the children’s birth certificates and notarized translation copies.
January 26, 2007: We received the I797, which is like a receipt. It confirmed that they received the petitions and the fee.
January 22, 2007: We sent in the I130 (immigrant petition for relative). At that time, these were $190 each. Transaction cost: $9.81 Total spent: $579.81
January 22, 2007: We sent in the I130 (immigrant petition for relative). At that time, these were $190 each. Transaction cost: $9.81 Total spent: $579.81
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Friday, July 10, 2009
Trip to the Library
I am so happy to be able to say that I joined my niece, Caitlyn, on her first trip to the library. She was very happy and couldn't believe that you could take the books home. We sat there for a long while and read books, did puzzles, and played computer games. Then we picked out books to take home. Caitlyn picked out a princess book and Leslie picked out a book on sharing. haha. I got a couple of books for Jayden and Maya along with two movies. I picked up "Maya and Miguel" because we are trying to reinforce the use of both languages at home. I also picked up "There Was An Old Lady Who Swallowed a Fly". This is one of my favorites so I picked up the book for the kids, but I thought the cartoon version would help them visualize it.
Here is Titi Weh reading a pop-up book with Maya.
Jayden and Caitlyn are super happy practicing their mouse skills, letters, and shapes on the computer.
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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Jayden's Progress with Letters and Numbers
Jayden is doing so well with his letters. This week, we started him on letter tracing and he's taking to it quite well.
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Saturday, July 4, 2009
July 4th
I was so sick. I was so alone. I was so sad.
I made the effort to dress us all in red white and blue. But now that I think of it, I don't think I ever took the time to explain to Jayden or Maya why. Once we got dressed, I took the kids out for a ride in the wagon. I took Rio with me too. It was so hot and so humid, but I didn't want to short the kids. In the end, they decided they didn't want to finish our walk so we went back to the swings and hung out there. Here they are in the clubhouse, or crackhouse as Jayden calls it.
My new sunglasses...
Notice the bead of sweat on Maya's face...
Jayden - Peek-a-boo
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Wednesday, July 1, 2009
First Time at the Movies!
The AMC movie theatre has a summer program where they show a film for $1 per person at 10am. The proceeds go to charity and I was told to get there early because it sells out. Last summer, I never got the chance to take the kids because I always worked on Wednesday. This year, I couldn’t wait to try it! So Leslie and I took the kids to see Madagascar 2: Escape to Africa and Jayden and Maya were awesome!
We were running a tad bit late. We got in and found seats easily enough. Leslie went to get snacks with Jayden and Caitlin. I stayed with Maya. I thought she would take it as an open invitation to roam the theatre but she just sat there. And when the movie started, my first thought was that it was too loud. But Maya sat back in wonder and didn’t flinch. Once Leslie got back with the kids, Jayden sat back and did fairly well. I think he was just happy he got to hold on to the bag of popcorn, but who knows. Towards the end, Maya actually fell asleep and Jayden started to play with the arm rest, but otherwise it was great!
Can’t wait to do it again!
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