Friday, September 25, 2009

Garage Project

We are so excited that the garage project is under way. This week, we got a little bit of the framing done. You can see where both doors will be. They are not where I originally had hoped, but they are where they best made sense to be. The wall will go down the middle. We moved the closets to the back of the room, where the garage door currently is.
One room is going to be a tad bit shorter than the other to make space for the electrical panel. Here's that spot. I hope to have some sort of built in shelf unit there to store all the stuff on my existing unit.

This is very exciting. The window is going in. Here's Pat and Esteban taking turns with the demo.
Here's the last bit left. Of course, there would be a rod in there making it even tougher to get out. Esteban takes his best shot.
Window is in. Here's the view from the inside...
Beautiful! I love it!
Now it's the finishing details...

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

UPDATE: Reuniting a Family

September 16, 2009: The embassy responded. Unfortunately, they requested the names and case numbers of the beneficiaries, which was at the bottom of the email. Ok, now we are wasting time. I decided to call. My first call did not go through. My second call, I decided to ask the operator how the mail system works. She transferred me to the mail room who transferred me to DPO. He informed me that if the package was scanned in, that means, the package arrived and is probably sitting on someone’s desk. (Grrrr!) He transferred me back to Immigrant Visa Section. I explain my situation to the person who answered. She said she hasn’t received it. She checked with her colleagues and they didn’t have it. She did admit that it was odd that IF the package arrived on the 31st , they should have had it by now. She decided to double-check somewhere else and I could hear her whisper to her co-workers. Finally, she reiterated that I should call back on Monday. I told her I would, but I expressed concern at being told on Monday that they didn’t have it, especially when I KNEW that the package was there. I went on to tell her about my previous conversation with the person in the mailroom. Again, she recommended I call on Monday. About an hour later, I received an email from the Embassy saying:

Dear Mrs. Valerio:
We have just received the documents you have sent to this Consulate. Unfortunately, after reviewing the documents, we have noticed that you have sent the Honduran birth certificates in the short form and we need the Literal Form (long form) for all the beneficiaries and the biological father.

Attached please find a sample of such document.

I’ve never felt so relieved and so sad and disappointed at the same time. Back to the drawing board…

September 14, 2009: The embassy responded. Unfortunately, they did not seem to understand our inquiry regarding the receiving of US Mail to an APO. I replied to the message with a restatement of my question.

September 9, 2009: We emailed a second inquiry to the embassy.

September 2, 2009: The embassy responded and has not received any documents. We should wait one month to make sure the document is not lost.

September 1, 2009: We emailed an inquiry to the embassy.

August 31, 2009: The package arrives to the post office in Honduras and delivery is scheduled. For when? We have no idea.


August 20, 2009: We received the birth certificates. I quickly scan them along with all the final documents and head to the post office. I tried to overnight them, but that option is not available. (We were given an APO address.) The only option is Priority Mail. I went ahead and send them with delivery confirmation. Now, we wait.

August 19, 2009: The long awaited birth certificates are in the U.S. Now we wait for the US Postal Service.

August 5, 2009: We received the signed legal forms from the kid’s mother authorizing their move to the U.S.

July 23, 2009: The last thing required is Proof of Relationship between Parent and Child, or in my case, Petitioner and Stepchild. I spent a bit of time looking through old photo albums and digital images. I collected a few photos of us together along with letters written to me by the children over the years. I’m going to send these with copies of my passport showing my visits to Honduras. Transaction cost: $12.13 Total spent: $3361.44

July 22, 2009: We shipped off the legal forms to Holland for signature and anxiously await their return. At this point, I have to stop and confess that I am worried that the children’s mother may back down. I pray that she does what is best for the children, and that God illuminates her heart. May she sign the forms and allow the children to join our family here. In Jesus name… Transaction cost: $27.95 Total spent: $3349.31

July 20, 2009: Esteban accompanies the children to part II of their physical appointment. They receive their immunizations and the official forms for the American Consulate.

July 16, 2009: The appointment goes very well. There are a few things missing though so we do not receive visas today. Esteban is given a list of things to compile along with an address to mail them to. After that, the children will be asked to come back with any adult and they will receive their visas.
· Esteban made the children’s appointments for their physicals. Transaction cost: $829.49
· He had a lawyer draft the memo granting permission to remove the kids to the U.S. which will be mailed to the children’s mother for signature. Transaction cost: $158.78
· Esteban also secures a copy of Shannel’s police certificate, certifying she’s never been in trouble with the law. Transaction cost: $18.52
The last thing left will be the children’s long form birth certificates. Apparently, this is a different version than the ones we submitted. Esteban’s Tia Melida will help us with this when she travels to Honduras next month. Travel, room & board: $264.64. Total spent: $3321.36

July 13, 2009: Shannel arrives in Honduras, after a hard and long journey from Guatemala, where she lives with her husband and child. All three of Esteban’s children are together for the first time since last year. Transaction cost: $6.35 Total spent: $2049.93

July 9, 2009: I received an email saying the appointments have been scheduled for July 16, 2009 at 7:30 a.m. I am in awe of God’s power, for only He could make this happen in this way. Thank you, God, for answering our prayers. We put in calls to all our relatives asking them to stand with us in prayer, that God will show favor on our petition and grant the kid’s entrance into the United States. Shortly after, I received a second email asking us to bring all forms and documents with us to the scheduled appointment.

July 8, 2009: I drafted an email in response to the embassy. I gave them Esteban’s cell phone number as well as Jerry’s number, who is now the boy’s guardian in our absence. I also asked if we should drop off the DS-230 part I and II while Esteban is in the country. I wonder if I will need to be there as the petitioner?

July 7, 2009: I got an email from the embassy in Tegucigalpa saying they were ready to set an appointment for August 2009 and they wanted a local number to reach them at. I am shaking. Could this really be happening?

June 30, 2009: I called the National Visa Center to get some clarification on the visa packet. We finally have all the forms, passports, photos and documents we needed and filled out the forms, but when it comes to the NVC, I like to make certain. They proceeded to inform me that our case had been expedited. I just have to take a moment to say Thank You GOD! Because, I know, that I know, that I know, that all this is happening because of his goodness and grace. They said they sent the file to the US Embassy in Tegucigalpa, Honduras as of June 25th. I called the Embassy in Honduras and was given an email address to follow up with. I drafted and sent the email, the very same day. I’m hoping that Esteban can just hand deliver the forms to them while he visits.

June 5, 2009: We receive the visa application packet. The application doesn’t seem too bad. They are requesting a ton of original documents though. Many original documents, some of which we do not have. Luckily Esteban’s uncle was visiting in Honduras and he will bring us the children’s passports and updated passport photos. Because the kids are currently split up, he will only bring the boy’s updated passport photos though. Shanel’s photos and passport will have to wait until Esteban visits in July.

June 4, 2009: We send in our request to expedite the case, in Jesus name!

June 3, 2009: Things are getting worse in Honduras. Ricardito is in trouble and I am more desperate than ever to get him out of there and bring him home with us. I call immigration and they confirm they received the visa fee. The next step is the visa application packet. She tells me she will request for a packet to be emailed to me. I ask if there is any way to expedite the case. She said they will only expedite in the case of military or life and death. I explain our situation with the kids. She tells me to send in a request via email and submit a copy of the death certificate.

April 19, 2009: Esteban’s mother passes.

April 15, 2009: We sent in the visa fee. Transaction cost: $1207.99 Total spent: $2043.58

July 3, 2008: We received notification that they reviewed the documents submitted in support of an application for an immigrant visa but could not continue the case without the visa fee. We had two choices. We could send the payment, but Esteban would have to forgo his trip to Honduras. Or we could send Esteban to Honduras and wait to send the payment next year. At the time:
*Esteban had already skipped his trip to Honduras in 2007
*Esteban’s daughter bore a child out of wedlock and he was now a grandfather
*The children’s mother had decided to leave the country and the boys were practically on their own with their maternal grandmother
*Esteban’s mother’s health was declining
We decided that it was much more important for him to visit Honduras. The fee would have to wait.

June 23, 2008: I submitted the I864 and the I864A forms. I guesstimate that it took me a full two weeks of filling out applications, making phone calls, making copies, sorting through three years of financial data and organizing documents. Transaction cost: $12.45 Total spent: $835.59

April 25, 2008: We received notification that effective January 1, 2008, the immigrant visa fees increased from $380 to $400. Lucky us.

December 9, 2007: We received notification that they received the Agent of Choice letter but they could not continue until we submit the immigrant visa application fee of $380.

December 6, 2007: We sent in the Choice of Address and Agent form. This took a while because we were under the impression that they should be signed by the children personally. We later found out that because they were minor children, Esteban could sign the form on their behalf. Transaction cost: $4.80 Total spent: $823.14

September 3, 2007: We received notification to fill out the I864, Affidavit of Support. This was by far the most overwhelming application for me. I postponed the project many times and I considered giving up many times. This was my contract and promise to the children that I would be their sponsor. It was emotionally overwhelming. The directions alone were 11 pages long. The application was also 11 pages long.

August 22, 2007: We sent in the fees. Transaction cost: $214.65 Total spent: $818.34

August 6, 2007: We received the I864 processing fee bill for $70 each. We also received the Choice of Address and Agent form.

July 3, 2007: We received the I797, Approval Notice. We were thrilled.

June 16, 2007: We sent in the copies and translations. Transaction cost: $23.88 Total spent: $603.69

May 7, 2007: We received the I797E, requesting evidence. They wanted copies of the children’s birth certificates and notarized translation copies.

January 26, 2007: We received the I797, which is like a receipt. It confirmed that they received the petitions and the fee. January 22, 2007: We sent in the I130 (immigrant petition for relative). At that time, these were $190 each. Transaction cost: $9.81 Total spent: $579.81

January 22, 2007: We sent in the I130 (immigrant petition for relative). At that time, these were $190 each. Transaction cost: $9.81 Total spent: $579.81

Monday, September 14, 2009

Celebrating 8 Years

You loved me when I was broken, when I didn't even love myself. You saw our future together, one that I was too afraid to accept or acknowledge. Eight years ago, you made me a wife. You helped make my house a home. You taught me to have faith and to believe. You supported all my decisions and try everything in your power to make my dreams come true.

Now, we have two beautiful kids together and I'm so grateful that God put you in my life. Sometimes I look at you and wonder where you came from. I don't even know. It seems as if you were always there.

Ours was a leap of faith and I can't wait to see what new adventures lie ahead for us! I love you!

Engagement Pictures on Sand Key Beach





My Wedding Portrait
The best look ever!
Most Romantic Kiss...
Getting a little crazy
Is that the best smile, or what? I love my dad!
Wasn't our planned wedding on the beach, but we made it work.


Without a doubt, the happiest moment of my wedding. Can you see that in my eyes?
Contentment at pulling the whole thing off...
I was always a Daddy's girl...
A toast
Cutting the cake
We went back about a month later to re-do wedding pictures and wedding video. I thought I would be scarred for life after our wedding. One day I'll blog about it. All I can say is that at that point, I was still quite sad and a little bitter. Even in that state of mind, I did recognize that it's not every bride that gets to wear her wedding dress twice and I did! I was thrilled.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Garage Pics

We started work on the insulation. So far, so good. The empty spot in the middle there is where our new window will go. Very excited about that!
We haven't gotten as far on the other side. We have to wait for the electrical work to get done first. You can see three electrical boxes towards the bottom for the electric and the cable.

Pictures!

Daddy puts up the bird feeder. Jayden and Maya are completely intrigued.
Jayden and Maya are calling "Tweet, tweet!" to let the birds know the feeder is out.

They crack me up!
I have to look at this sad face every morning at drop off.
Afternoon at the park, after church...
Weee!
Ingenious! Popsicles without the mess...
Maya doesn't really care for dolls just yet, but she is getting to the point where she loves to play with her stuffed animals. She often sits with Bear and Bunnie at her table and has tea parties. Here she is giving Bear a drink.
Maya picked out her own outfit today. After dropping off Jayden, I came home to find her in a 4t outfit that was Caitlyn's. I can barely believe how cute it looks on her. I would never have tried it on her on my own.
Big Hug for Bear
When he's not crying, he's working on beautiful creations. Here's Jayden's Artwork:





Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Garage Conversion Project

Well, we started the garage conversion project. Last week, we started to pick up materials. We were very fortunate. We had a neighbor loan us his truck so we could bring stuff back home and several neighbors loaned us drills and other tools for the job. On Sunday, September 6th, we began construction.

Here is the final sketch. We'll have two smaller rooms and a dedicated laundry space. The room on the left will have a window, door and closet for Ricardo. The second room will have an entrance (no door) and a closet. I'm putting the futon in here in case of any overnight guests. When not in use, it will serve as a sofa. We also plan to put the kid's board games and puzzles, an entertainment center, and maybe a small table. This is going to be their hang out room.
Here is the window we picked up for the space. It's a beautiful custom order, Pella double paned window with low E ($100 tax credit). It was a special order window that was originally over $200. We picked it up on clearance for $40!
We have a very limited number of tools, most of which I bought before I was married. We don't own a square. And I'm not ashamed to say that I sauntered out back to Jayden's Bob the Builder Workbench and I'm now using his square with great satisfaction. I should be ashamed that yesterday he wanted to play with it and I said "No!"


At the end of today, here's what we've got so far... The left hand wall is completely framed.
And we're about 75% done with the right hand wall.
Here's the teeny tiny space we have left to do. We were so bummed out that we couldn't just finish it up, but we ran out of time and Esteban was so tired already. He's got a ton of bruises and cuts and the makings of one gigantic blister on his hand. I felt awful that he woke up so early today to get started on the project. He didn't take a nap in the afternoon and he's working a graveyard shift tonight. I know he's going to be super tired!