Sunday, April 12, 2009

The Cousin's Easter Celebration

Mari and Serg were in for a crazy busy weekend at the restaurant so I volunteered to take her kids for the weekend. It's the first time they've ever slept anywhere without their parents so we were nervous, but things turned out just fine. We moved the kid's table and chairs inside so that Jayden and Aiden could sit here to dinner and Sebi and Maya could sit in their booster seats. They loved having their own space.
Here is Sebastian watching tv.
On Easter Sunday, we decided to go to the second service. The first would have been too early with 4 kids and the last would have been perfect, but I didn't want to go to the last service. Amazingly, we get there at 9am exactly. I sit down thinking to myself, "I'm Super Mom and Super Titi!" I feel more joy than I can remember feeling in a long time and I'm overtaken by the moment so I bend down to kiss them each, when I realize that I never brushed their teeth or washed their faces. Horrified, I grab a wipe and start to clean them up as best as I could, since not a one of them likes having their faces, particularly their eyes, wiped! Here are my angels. Jayden is still mad about the wipe incident.

We quickly lost control of the situation and the kids become antsy. Maya and Sebi are begging to come out of their strollers and I almost had to sit on Jayden and Aiden to keep them in their seats. But it's Easter Sunday and I'm not losing my temper no matter what happens so I do my best to keep them interested in the service. Thank God for the choir! Because of the large turnout on Easter Sunday, the church holds an outdoor service to accommodate the crowds since the new building is under construction and not ready yet. They set up a large white tent and chairs and we are sitting literally in an area with dirt, covered by mulch. This is usually where the cars park. And before I know it, the kids have discovered sticks and start playing with the dirt and mulch. Esteban was furious, but I pretend as if it's not happening. Atleast they are not causing a scene, I muse to myself! Here's Maya all but sitting in the pile of dirt.
The kid's hands and feet were black with dirt. Ugh. Here's Aiden's feet!
Only adorable Sebi was still clean.
Maya was black with dirt and then she wiped her hands and feet on Esteban's pant legs. Didn't she know he was already mad?
After the service, we cleaned up and took the kids to grab some breakfast. They all had fun picking out muffins and donuts. We then headed to the playground where they forgot all about the goodies and ran off to have a good time.



Sebi was just being too cute!
Even Esteban takes a swing with the boys.
On the way out, the kids ran ahead of us and right into the bounce house. We caved and said 5 minutes, ok! I just vetoed the idea of having a bounce house at the kid's birthday party because last time, Jayden and Maya refused to go in. Oh well. Here's Jayden pushing some poor soul.

After we finally convinced them to come out of the bounce house (Esteban had to literally go in and grab Chooch), we went home and discovered that the Easter bunny had been by and left treats!
The kids were thrilled with their baskets. Eggs and Easter grass were everywhere and everyone was fighting for everyone else's things.
A little blurry, but Maya found a Dora shovel and a bunny noisemaker in her basket!
Jayden didn't care what was in his eggs. He just wanted to open them up in a jiffy and claim the prizes as his own!
After basket mayhem, we took them to the bathroom for a thorough cleaning of hands and feet and left them in their undies to play for a while.
And Jayden and Chooch actually took their naps together. Jayden never wants to sleep with Chooch, so I was thrilled. Of course, Chooch doesn't fool around. When it's time to sleep, it's time to sleep. And Jayden is a major fool arounder. So when I peeked in on them Chooch was in sleep position and Jayden was standing over him with his blanket over his head, pretending to be a ghost. Poor Chooch! Here they are after they finally passed out.
After nap, we had dinner at a friend's house. They have a huge retention pond behind their home, which was completely empty so I took the kids there to play soccer. I was just to nervous to stay in our host's yard since they had a pool, but no pool fence. And it was a pretty tight space. In this large wide open space, there wasn't much that could go wrong, except that everyone was fighting over the volleyball, soccer ball, and tennis ball.
Maya could care less about the sticks. As long as there were sticks and dirt, she was fine!


The evening ended at 9:30 when the kids went to sleep. What a day!

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Easter Egg Hunt at Family Christian Center

We took the kids to the Egg Hunt at our church. Now, they had 60,000 eggs and so there was tons to go around. I didn't even get to take pictures because Jayden and Maya literally walked in, filled their baskets and came out in less than five minutes. It was crazy. I took the eggs and emptied them into the basket in the stroller. Here's Maya helping...
The line for the Easter Bunny was way too long and when I combined that with the fact that Jayden and Maya refuse to sit still for pictures, I decided it wouldn't be worth it. The real bunny was just as fun and no line. Here's Jayden checking him out.

Maya takes a turn to pet the bunny.
Afterwards, we let the kids play in the playground. Here's Jayden on what turned out to be his favorite!
Maya was a maniac on the swings. E was pushing her pretty hard and I was pretty nervous, butt she seemed to enjoy the whole thing!

After the park, we stopped by the Spanish Ministry table. They were selling pinchos (spanish style shish kabobs) and pina coladas. Delicious! I couldn't stop at one. I went back for a second pincho. Too bad they ran out of the pina colada. I would have had a second too!

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Library Visits

With my schedule being wide open now, I have really thrown myself into my to-do list at home. And I must say that the days are flying by. It seems like there is so much to do. I am keeping so busy.

I started to bring the kids to the library. I used to miss Toddler Time because it was on Wednesday and Thursday, my work days. And we’re really enjoying it. The kids aren’t really sure how to act, ‘cause they’ve only been a few times and we don’t know the stories or songs yet, but it’s so much fun. I love picking out the books we’re going to read for the week and I especially love looking for Spanish board books. Plus, while I’m at it, I pick up an audio book for myself.

Here's Jayden dancing to the Hokey Pokey and If You're Happy and You Know It! He was just thrilled to wave his hanky around.
Esteban was very amused!

Maya was pretty happy too.

Saturday, April 4, 2009

Maya's Birthday

Last night, I did a quick search through my recipes and found one that seemed interesting AND I had all the ingrediants on hand so I decided to make Maya a Chocolate Cream Cheese Pound Cake! I scooped out the flour and the sugar and Maya went running to her booster seat, fastened her safety strap and threw on her bib. It was hilarious!
I told her the cake was for tomorrow, but apparently she didn't understand me cause she laughed.

April 4th! Maya's Birthday! Here's the birthday princess brushing her teeth.
It just so happens that one of the local churches was hosting an easter egg hunt so off we went. That's not a Dora Egg, by the way... It's the bouncy ball that Esteban got her. She loved it so much, she decided to put it in her basket.
We're in line at the church. Well, everyone except for Maya. She's just posing and looking all cute.
Didn't seem like that many eggs for so many children, but it was enough for them to get the point and they enjoyed it anyways.
The birthday girl gets whatever she wishes for. Jayden was lucky today. They each got a ride.
Jayden loved it!
Maya thought of something that made her quite happy!
Jayden is holding back a smile. They make me laugh when they do this. Maya is famous for this.
No fancy decor this time. Sorry Maya. I'll whip something fabulous up for your party!
Jayden wanted to help blow out candles so bad, but it turned out Maya was quite capable!
Triumphant Smile!
Clearly Jayden loved the cake, as he's liking his entire paw!
Maya too, although she's being a bit more lady like!
She's pretty good in my wedges! You should see her walk in them.

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

April Fool's Day

I was so anxious yesterday. I was almost afraid to go to work. Hearing about so many layoffs so close to home takes a toll on you and when I heard over my weekend that the firing squad was in my building, well I couldn’t help but feel as if I were facing the guillotine. As soon as I got there, I was told that the executive secretary had called for me yesterday. I had a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. I tried to brace myself, for the worst, but how do you do that? I couldn’t shake that feeling that my time had come. I called my job-share partner and she mentioned that she had been spared, but I couldn’t allow myself to hope. I tried to throw myself into my work, but I couldn’t think. I was almost moving in slow motion, the minutes dragging by. And then, I got the phone call. I was to report to my area to see my leader.

I can’t tell you what they said for I really don’t remember. It was all a blur and from the look on her face, I knew I was in for the worst. From then on out, it took everything I had in me just to try to keep it together and even still I broke down. I should have worn my waterproof mascara. I remember thinking that. What an awful day for a layoff! April Fool’s Day. I feel like a fool. I just wanted to run out of there as quickly as possible, but they kept asking questions. Are you ok? Can I call anyone for you? Can I get you a drink of water? Are you sure you’re ok to drive?

Now, after seventeen years of service, I find myself unemployed. What I’d been fearing for months materialized right before my very eyes. I shed whatever tears I was going to shed on the way home from work. I tried listening to my audio book to distract myself, but it didn’t matter. The tears just came automatically.

I feel the need to count my blessings. Considering the circumstances, I am still much better off than others. I was not the major bread winner. Thank God. That would have been worse. I was only part time. Thank God. If I were full time, that would have been worse. The benefits were not under my name. Thank God. That would have been worse. And I actually have a little bit of money saved up. Thank God. I’m sure there are those who don’t have anything to fall back on. I get to stay home with the kids for a little while. I always wanted to be a stay at home mom. Now I’ll have time for some reflection. Time to … I have no idea.